Relation Problems

problems from the relation come when people thinks
from there brain but not from the heart.they tell what
ever that comes to the mind and make some one really
hurt. i dont think thats fare for them. we need to think
before we say something to them. for an example,
(my girlfriend told me that she loves me but she want
me to be with some one else. she doesnt even thought
how much i love her.and she keeps telling me more and
more.. i love her so much but she hurts me by telling things
like that. then later when she realise she have done some
thing wronge and she want to aplogize me. still i keep
forgiving her as it's like nothing happen in between us.)
is this a simple think to a person not to be hurt. i think it
is a situation he should be hurt. if i were him i'll also be
hurt. this is just one example from me. people in relations
please think from your heart when ever you say it to ur love
ones or to neither of them. think about it first .then spell it
out. this is my advice to you people dont hurt any one wether
you love him/her or wether he/she loves you.